Am I experiencing depression?

Published on
Updated on
Use a read speaker Print a document

Although it’s common to feel sad or upset from time to time, depression is deeper and longer lasting. It can affect how you think, feel and act.

You can tap on the video below to view an interpretation of this story in American Sign Language (ASL).

Depression is a common mental disorder that can leave people experiencing low mood for an extended period of time. It can affect people of all ages and impact all areas of a person’s life, including schoolrelationships and physical health. There are different types of depression, and they can only be diagnosed by a doctor, psychologist or psychiatrist.

If you’re experiencing depression, it doesn’t mean you’re lazy or weak. It’s as real and as serious as a physical health condition. Taking care of your mental and emotional health is just as important as taking care of your physical body.

What are the symptoms of depression?

Everyone experiences depression differently, but certain feelings and behaviours are common, including:

  • feeling sad, down or low most days
  • feeling irritable or angry
  • feeling helpless or hopeless
  • feeling anxious, nervous or restless
  • crying a lot
  • feeling guilty
  • feeling like you’re alone
  • having negative thoughts or feelings about yourself
  • having trouble sleeping, sleeping all of the time or feeling tired all of the time
  • having trouble concentrating at school / work
  • losing interest in things you enjoy
  • having difficulty making decisions
  • withdrawing from friends / family
  • having changes in appetite (e.g. eating less, eating more, etc.)
  • taking more risks than you used to
  • acting aggressively or disruptively
  • using drugs or alcohol to cope
  • having thoughts about death or suicide

Only a doctor, psychologist or psychiatrist can make a diagnosis of depression. If you notice new and ongoing changes in your mood, thoughts and / or actions, you can start to get support by connecting with a safe adult (e.g. a doctor / nurse, parent / caregiver, counsellor, etc.). They may be able to help you identify what to do / who to contact next for more options.

What factors can contribute to depression?

Many factors can contribute to depression, including:

  • experiencing racism / other forms of oppression
  • experiencing trauma / abuse
  • physical health issues
  • substance use
  • a major change in life
  • the divorce of parents / caregivers
  • a break up
  • conflicts at home
  • the death of someone close
  • a big move
  • genetics (if someone in your family has experienced depression, you may be more likely to experience it too)
  • and more

And sometimes, depression just happens for no clear reason. A combination of physical, psychological and environmental factors may play a role in how you feel.

How can depression be managed?

Depression is manageable. It doesn’t usually go away by itself, and getting support from a safe adult may be the first action you take to address it. The two most commonly recommended treatments for depression are medication and / or counselling or therapy. Here are some things to know:

  • Medication may help to lift your mood and help you think more clearly. If a doctor / psychiatrist gives you medication, try to take it exactly as prescribed. You can book follow-up appointments with a doctor / psychiatrist if you have concerns about your medication and to help ensure it’s working for you.
  • Counselling or therapy is a space where you can communicate about what’s going on for you with a trained professional (e.g. a psychiatrist, psychologist, social worker, counsellor, etc.). They can help you understand and navigate the factors that may be contributing to your mood.

In addition to medication and / or counselling or therapy, there are some other things you can try to boost your mood (if possible / accessible to you), including:

What are some other things to know about depression?

If you’re experiencing depression or low mood, there are people and places available to support you. Here are some other things to remember:

  • Your mental health is just as important as your physical health. It’s about taking care of your overall well-being.
  • Depression is common, and you don’t have to navigate it on your own.
  • Depression is manageable, even if it takes some time to feel better. It’s OK to ask for help.
  • If you’re experiencing thoughts of suicideself-injury or death, you might consider connecting with a safe adult for help right away. You can also call or text 9-8-8, a 24/7 confidential national suicide crisis helpline for support.
  • You can search for counselling and other mental health supports across Canada using Kids Help Phone’s Resources Around Me directory.

Depression is more than just feeling sad. If you think you may be experiencing depression, you can communicate with a safe adult. For free, private, 24/7 support with anything on your mind, you can contact Kids Help Phone.

Resource Feedback
Was this page helpful to you?
Did you learn anything from this page that you can use in your life?
Did you get the support you were looking for today from Kids Help Phone?